Spirit of doing things…


Yesterday I was watching…. ENGLISH-VINGLISH
Leave about English learning/speaking

The movie has got more than that


For me

The focal theme of movie

Appeared on a bigger spectrum


Struggle of a wife/mother to make her own identity

To earn her respect and love

In spite of spending all her time…all her energies….all her life

To build a thing called family!


Many men …I swear…never ever realize or not even bother to acknowledge

The things ….may be... daily routine in terms societal norms…

Their wives do…

In their life time

Similarly we rarely find children…who can actually measure the value of things a mother does for them!


Most of them ASSUME …its normal!

Every wife does

Every mother does

What's a big deal…?


But no one thinks even for a moment

What happens if she stops doing?

What happens if she starts questioning?

What happens if she too becomes demanding


It's not the question of being educated or uneducated

It's not the question of being employed or unemployed

Whatever may be the case…

Even on today's date…


Women have the second place…

Rather I would say….

In most of the families ….in most of the matters

No place…. To express their opinion


Whether it's buying a car, children's education or marrying their daughter

Men's word is final


Many WOMEN….don't even realize that

When they look back after decades of family life…

They will be left with nothing…


No big achievement…

No big contribution…

No big acknowledgement…

Neither from friends…

Nor from relatives!

Neither from husband

Nor from children!


But still….

The greatness of a woman is…

She continues her journey….

Without any complaints


Compromising her life …her aspirations…her ambitions!

She makes…a house a home!


I salute all the wives...all the mothers

For their undying spirit

Spirit of doing things…

Without any expectations!!



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