Spirit of doing things…
Yesterday I was watching…. ENGLISH-VINGLISH
Leave about English learning/speakingThe movie has got more than that
For me
The focal theme of movie
Appeared on a bigger spectrum
Struggle of a wife/mother to make her own identity
To earn her respect and love
In spite of spending all her time…all her energies….all her life
To build a thing called family!
Many men …I swear…never ever realize or not even bother to acknowledge
The things ….may be... daily routine in terms societal norms…
Their wives do…
In their life time
Similarly we rarely find children…who can actually measure the value of things a mother does for them!
Most of them ASSUME …its normal!
Every wife does
Every mother does
What's a big deal…?
But no one thinks even for a moment
What happens if she stops doing?
What happens if she starts questioning?
What happens if she too becomes demanding
It's not the question of being educated or uneducated
It's not the question of being employed or unemployed
Whatever may be the case…
Even on today's date…
Women have the second place…
Rather I would say….
In most of the families ….in most of the matters
No place…. To express their opinion
Whether it's buying a car, children's education or marrying their daughter
Men's word is final
Many WOMEN….don't even realize that
When they look back after decades of family life…
They will be left with nothing…
No big achievement…
No big contribution…
No big acknowledgement…
Neither from friends…
Nor from relatives!
Neither from husband
Nor from children!
But still….
The greatness of a woman is…
She continues her journey….
Without any complaints
Compromising her life …her aspirations…her ambitions!
She makes…a house a home!
I salute all the wives...all the mothers
For their undying spirit
Spirit of doing things…
Without any expectations!!
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