Thoughts Unleashed

Have you ever thought? How many times in a day/week/month/year you spend time with yourself? How long, since last time when you made a solo “soul journey”? How much you give space to yourself in your life? We hardly bother about these things After all life is going at such a fast pace Who has time to ponder about all these silly things. Every day we have a fixed schedule…. Meet certain people, meet certain targets Go office, come home …the day ends. When everything is being practiced so perfectly Why do we require a soul journey? Why do we bother to enquire what it actually requires? It’s a mere waste of time for many of us. We all have learnt the art of manipulating We all have learnt the art of compromising We all have made a contract with life… And we all follow the rules and regulations so faithfully. We never realize what is meant by LIFE We never feel what it takes to be alive….literally!! We never bother to be a perfect humane Because…. we always striv...

There will be a certain kind of weak point/ weakness for every person, Because of which he/she will remain faithful in a relationship. It can be of any kind…husband-wife, parent-child, friend-friend, boss-subordinate, neighbor-neighbor or Sometimes even with a stranger. We try our best to be in certain boundaries to Maintain a particular relation, it can be willingly or un willingly. We all do that …either because of responsibility or because of obligation. We all do that....either because we value the relationship or because we are in compulsion. Exceptions are always there…. Definitely there will be certain relationships which we want to have.... We want to have them whole heartedly…. Because of the person involved. I am not talking about such relations. I am talking about general relationships where the problem comes when one of the people involved In a relationship forget the value of the relationship, Under estimate the effort being put by the other person t...

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Yesterday my friend reminded me that “you are one short of century”! He was talking about number of my blog posts. This morning someone told me that “today is great Abdul Kalam’s birthday”! We should thank him, celebrate, etc. etc. So, I just started thinking… is there really so much significance to A particular number or a particular day. Or is it that, just we are making them so significant, Without bothering about the core value. If number 100 is significant why can’t be number 99? And by all means, it looks more beautiful and more rhythmic. Why we are particular about celebrating silver jubilee or diamond jubilee Instead of celebrating when we are really, whole heartedly jubilant. Why we want to celebrate a marriage day or friendship day? Why is that we are allocating only one day in a year to celebrate marriage? Whereas a marriage ….living together with the “life partner” Should be a 24x7, 365 days celebration. Why is that we require a day to celebrate friends...

I just returned from a short trip to Mammalapuram. Travelling is a passion for me, If possible, I just want to go around the world before I leave the planet Earth. Any kind of travel performed…. Whether it is short or long term or Whether to known or unknown place, Whether it is planned or unplanned or Whether I liked or disliked …. Every journey I made is having its own kind of experiences, and as I observed, Whenever I made a journey, I have always grown as a person. When you travel you have an entire sphere of time, That is unique, which is exclusive to that particular place. You meet new people, see new places, Experience new things, learn some new lessons and … There is an ample scope for you to look into yourself much more leisurely, much more differently, Much more widely, much more vividly…. than your routine. So, my dear friends ….Never miss an opportunity to travel, Never miss the chance to see life in a different perspective Keep going places…explore...

What is the reason which makes us attracted to certain people? Why we give importance to them? What is that makes them irreplaceable? Whether it’s their character or it’s a reflection our very own character? Off late, as I have observed, it’s seldom the first one. Quite often it’s our inner instinct or urge that makes us connected to certain people and reluctant to certain others. Can we put all these actions and reactions into certain kind of neuron activity? which gives positive signal to some persons and negative signal to some other? It’s quite possible…there could be some kind of magnetic material in our brain…. which do processing of the signals, the very moment when we meet a person. Because, time and again, though I tried my best to connect with certain people I could not succeed till today, there will be some repulsive force which always pulls me back. At the same time there are certain persons in my life with whom I got connected instantaneously. The most ...

You make me laugh, you make me cry! You know when to listen and when to talk with me!! You make me think, you make me feel! You know when I am right and when I am going wrong!! I know my friend …no matter what I do… I know… you are always there for me! In the moments of delight, in the moments of distress! You know when to hold and when to let go off myself!! In the moments of aplomb, in the moments of crisis! You know when to depart and when to accept me!! I know my friend …no matter whatever I go through … I know….. You are always there with me! I know… you are always there for me! I know….. You are always there with me!!

Today morning I came across with a quotation by Dale Carnegie “People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing” I was just thinking to find out the most important criteria that differentiates A successful person from an ordinary person. I am not talking about materialistic success…. Success which is estimated by name, fame, wealth etc…etc... I am talking about success as a person, success as a human So many things came into my mind….but all appear somewhat superficial. What is something unique to successful people which make them stand tall among the crowd… And I think its “FLEXIBILITY”……and not “having fun in what they are doing” as Dale Carnegie said. You may laugh at my interpretation but…. I strongly believe that unless a person is flexible to people associated with him/her, flexible to surroundings, flexible to situations and more importantly flexible to opportunities, It’s not possible to be successful in life. It’s not that you have to always ...

Your thought is a tree rooted deep in the soil of tradition and whose branches grow in the power of continuity. My thought is a cloud moving in the space. It turns into drops which, as they fall, form a brook that sings its way into the sea. Then it rises as vapour into the sky. Your thought is a fortress that neither gale nor the lightning can shake. My thought is a tender leaf that sways in every direction and finds pleasure in its swaying. Your thought is an ancient dogma that cannot change you nor can you change it. My thought is new, and it tests me and I test it morn and eve. You have your thought and I have mine. ----------Khalil Gibran

At some or other point of life every one of us will realize that.. We all came into this world as a single entity And we leave the world also as… single entity! Then why we struggle so much to maintain the relationships? Why we attach ourselves to certain persons? Is it because we are not aware of the fact? or Is it because we know, but don’t want to understand and apply it. The latter may be more correct and appropriate reason. It is not that we don’t have realization.. In fact we all know pretty well that … We came all alone to this world and One day we leave all alone But does this stop us to live unattached? Without any commitment… If at all we can live such kind of life Can it still be called life? How can we live without any emotions? sentiments, feelings, reasons and above all… Relations, who fulfill the very thing called life. All of us keep ourselves engaged with some kind of occupation… Some kind of attachment in the name of all kinds of relations Fa...

People often commit one mistake They plan for doing something extraordinary They think of doing something so perfect that…. They miss the real timing and end up with something else, They get something different than the actual thing. The problem is not committing the mistake The problem is never realizing that they have committed mistake. Of ‘course I know pretty well that.... One is not going to gain something big by doing right thing at right time. But definitely they are going to lose the actual value of doing right thing at right time. It’s nothing but the satisfaction, the feeling of completing the task in right moment, in the right manner. The person, who has achieved this, only can really understand what I am saying… It’s all together a great feeling. So my dear friends never postpone a thing or try to plan for a thing Act immediately, act on your impulse. If you want to say sorry…. say sorry immediately Don’t wait for a day, when it no more has same effect. ...

I was just wondering what is the ultimate tragedy in one’s life. If I ask the question, the answer may vary from person to person. But if you can think little deep, then you can really understand the thing. It’s not that you losing someone dear It’s not that you don’t gain something big It’s not that you won’t get what you wanted It’s not that you didn’t met with your expectations It’s not the biggest physical abuse you have ever faced It’s not the worst mental trauma you have to pass through. It's definitely none of these.... Because, there is always a way out to overcome each one of these in our life People survive for so many years, even after all these tragedies, So, this itself is a proof that they are not the ultimate tragedies in life by which life becomes void. Then what is the ultimate tragedy of life? According to me, the most tragic thing to happen in one’s life is….. To know what is going to happen. It appears very simple at the very first instance ...

“Assumption” is the word struck to me, when I started thinking about the reasons for all the happenings of life, whether it’s good or bad. Assumption is like a preconceived idea regarding anyone or anything. The first mistake we all commit in life is….. We often approach a thing or a person based on an assumption, The second one is …we expect something based on that assumption. We never realize that when the very assumption is wrong Then there is every possibility of our expectations also going wrong. An assumption is like mirage, yet it makes us believe that we are seeing an absolute thing. And then, we yield to it again and again, Never ever making even a slightest effort to see beyond the assumption. Our thinking, there by our living, becomes so narrow once we start assuming things that we lose the track of an absolute path. We never try to act on our impulses, our intuitions, our senses with which we are bestowed with.... We forget that we are humane, we practic...

Everything appears so perfect when you are around But, nothing seems to be alright when you go away I walk, I work, I eat and sleep as the day passes Yes, I become a mere perfectionist when you go away I smile, I wave, I meet and talk when people come across True, I behave just as a methodologist when you go away Neither heavens fall on earth, nor Earth quake or brake Yet, I loose everything on earth when you go away Its not that I can’t live leaving you, Its not that I am going to die without you,but Life seems so imperfect when you go away!! Life appears so disastrous when you go away!!!

Just now I read …..”happiness is momentary That is the reason why it becomes precious” Then why can’t we treat sadness, also momentary for that matter.., As precious as happiness? It’s all the mind game……. Though happiness is momentary You can always relive the moments of happiness You can relish the thing again and again Those moments refresh your body They soothe your senses Brings you a sort of contentment.. You ask for it more and more!!! Though sadness is also momentary You never ever want to look at those moments As they will drain your energy They will make you depressed Those moments will bring you a sort of dissatisfaction You never wish to repeat such moments in your life… But just I started thinking...... Is there any way by which we can make all the moments of our life as precious, irrespective of whether they represent happiness or sadness? It may not be possible all the time But if make little effort to retaliate and try to make out the reas...

Sometimes we learn big lessons from small things, Of course one has to have an open mind to observe and analyze! Today morning I was trying to extract lime juice I was thinking something else and cut the lime along instead of across... Then it became very problematic for me to hold the lime and extract its full juice. In spite of all my efforts I was not successful to full extent …in extracting juice, Definitely I couldn’t get completely what I want. The reason is very simple I cut along not across…. But I have not realized the fact and at the same time expected that it doesn’t make much difference in completing my job. But today the lime has taught me a tough lesson.. Even though it’s a small one …if not treated in proper manner It will not yield completely to us… So my dear friends just think twice when trying to bend rules To get something done… You may assume “why not?” … But every big or small thing in this world has its own individuality You first try to und...

In the midst of night In the darkest of silence You enter into my world Taking dream flight I never knew How it happens Seldom do I realize How you creep in All the doors are closed All the windows are shut My eyes are covered with sleep I am tight lipped without taking your name But you enter… You enter into my world Just like silence occupying the space You overwhelm me Just like wind filling the atmosphere But you enter… You enter into my heart Just like hot gushing blood You engulf me Just like breath filling the lungs By the time I realize How? What? When? I am no more …. It’s totally you My body and soul… It’s just you…

I started counting all the stars of the Sky to put it number I tried to measure all the Air of universe to put it in space I started reckoning all the waters of the Ocean to put it in volume I tried adding up all the places on the Earth to put it in area I started calculating all the heat of the Sun to put in warmth I tried computing by all the magnanimous things I know…. But in vain my dear…………. You can really FEEL my love…. Only by one means….. You becoming “ME” Though it’s for a moment…..

Suddenly……sometimes ….. I loose the track…. I become quite random In my thoughts In my deeds I don’t realize what’s happening I don’t know why is it happening Yet it happens…………. And obviously I become part of it Without my concern. The problem isn’t with the happening The problem is with the end result, For which I become responsible. Irrespective of my involvement People become judgmental…. Nobody ever bothers to ponder even for a minute How do I become responsible for things which I have not done Is it not wrong on their part to decide on my part? Yet they will do that Yet I have to bear the brunt………. How stupid I am????? To go along with the flow… Instead of swimming across. Why I become so timid at times? Is it because I am “Latha” Is it because of the belief? Belief that I require a support all the time? Is it because I refrain from swimming across the odds? Probably the last one may be most opt answer….. Yah true… at times I prefer to be an es...

Have you ever thought? What if….? If you have to face the worst situation of your life? The answer is simple….You will learn the lesson of your life time!!! Many a times we hear that… a person, almost gone case had a miraculous escape… from death… We call it destiny…he/ she still has life to his/ her credit…so he/she is alive. A person almost lost everything in life rises to riches just by an incident We call it destiny…he/ she still has luck to his/ her credit…so he/she flourished. Then why that particular thing should happen to him/her at all? Why the one who has gone so close to death is relieved of that pain at the end? why the one who has seen the worst of his life relieved of that problem at the end? Have you ever thought? Till yesterday I have also not got an opportunity to think in that line But when you face the worst You will learn the best….. So yesterday it happened with me and I have learnt the lesson of my life …. If everything is going so perfe...

We all describe the things either by quantity or quality Most of the things may be classified using either of these terms. So, what about love? Can we quantify love? Large…medium…small.. according to performance? I don’t think so…. Then what about quality of love? Can we do grading? Good.. better.. best…according to perfection? I don’t think so…. Can we make a generalized scale and fix these terms for every one’s love? Or for that matter, at least for love of one person? I don’t think so… It is not an easy task to fix the terms for love.. Because love is not a static element It is very dynamic by nature Actually it is not a big problem even if you don’t understand what is the quality or quantity of love you are involved with… The basic problem is to understand why you love Why you love a particular person(s)…. We all know that… a person is nothing but Made of certain features…certain qualities…. Then why it is not so that We love every one having simila...

In life nothing goes as we have planned But the beauty of life is...... It always gives us a ray of hope! It always makes us to believe that.. Tomorrow something may happen according to our wish....... and it will make you to continue the journey. By the time we realize the real thing... That its just our illusion and there is no such horizon where sky and earth meet, our life ends.

The more time passes between us The more I realize…. How deep is the love behind our relationship How precious was the time we have spent together…. The more I realize The more often I feel like expressing it But rarely I get an opportunity to say….. Life wouldn’t have been this wonderful Without you!! Thank you….. For all that you were to me During all these days!!

I think we all feel, At least on few instances in our life……that We can do nothing about the situation, We remain quite helpless…. We become quite hopeless and We readily accept the defeat We decide that ..can’t play any further We start believing that this is …the end of the game We surrender ourselves completely to the situation. What makes us to think so? Why we become so vulnerable at certain times? Why we stop fighting? Why we don’t want to face the situation? Why we think that this is it…no other way around.. Why we think to say …“I QUIT” Is there anything in the world... that is more worth than life? Why can’t we look at life in its totality? Why we give so much importance to any one incidence? Why we think in terms of big or small? Why we categorize it as simple or complicated? There can be always some aspect of life which is challenging.. There can be always a relation which you can’t change.. There can be always a situation which you can’t handle.. ...

Last night I was just thinking.. why do we love? rather why to love anybody at all? Why we involve ourselves so much in a relationship called love? What makes us to keep loving? etc…etc… Then I started counting what all the things love brings into our life… Creativity, passion, emotion, sentiment, anguish, happiness … the list goes on…. Probably all the kind of feelings one want to experience can be experienced once they are in love. So, definitely love is a good thing, rather a profitable thing to happen in one’s life. You learn so many lessons just by paying for one thing. The next thing I started thinking was how love begins? I don’t want to discuss the intricacies but, yes, I believe that, its wholly depends on the person involved.. The particular person is 100% responsible for generating the feeling called love and all the things attached with it. The next thing that came to my mind was… where love leads? Why and when the problem comes in love? This could...

Every time I make a trip Every time I take a road Every time I realize.... It’s the journey that matters Not the destination! Every time I meet the people Every time I talk with them Every time I realize.... It’s the value of relation that matters Not the mere conversation! Every time I make a mistake Every time I take a wrong step Every time I realize.... It’s the lesson learnt that matters Not the failure of your expectation! Every time I look at life Every time I count the time Every time I realize.... It’s the experience gained that matters Not the years spent in vain! Yes, every time I do realize… It’s the journey It’s the relation It’s the lesson It’s the experience That matters Yes..... That’s what matters to me That’s what life means to me

They say an idel brain is Devil’s Workshop But as I observe myself, quit often I found that Even when I am not idel, my brain is a Devils Workshop! It can’t be kept at rest in spite of all my trials and tributes.. So, now a days I stopped doing the stupid thing of controlling it. I allow it to wander on its own… Either I just observe it or follow it… And I think that is the best way to make peace with myself. It has got lot of positive attributes to it! As long as you don’t involve yourself ….. In all the matters that are going on in your workshop… You are at complete peace! Bonus…. you will learn a thing or two. It’s all matter of time and space… How much time you spend for an incident How much space you give for that incident It’s all the matter of your Devils Workshop! Once you learn the art of detachment Once you are capable of observing things Just being neutral…. Once you can follow the things Just by not getting involved… You realize that you are at pe...

It can happen with any one Rather it happens with every one Some or the other time of their life The frequency may vary. It is most common with some people Some people rarely do it But I am sure...... No one can completely avoid it.. Yes..One cannot avoid it Though he/she tries their best to avoid it. It’s nothing but.... Uttering what they really don’t want to utter Saying what they really don’t mean to say. Yes, it happens in a moment of anguish It happens in moment of frustration It happens in moment of dis-satisfaction It happens in moment of disappointment It can be any temporary feeling It can be love or hatred But definitely it’s a momentary reaction We forgot that word has.... Word has got its own value Word has got its own impact Word has got its own consequences Word has got its own LIFE.... Seldom do we realize And we do say something ... Which we are not intended to say.. We may regret afterwards.. We may feel sorry or We may even say sor...

ఈ పాత బడిన క్షణాలని కోయిల గొంతులో కలకాలం మిగలనీ.. ఎప్పుడన్నా వెనక్కు తిరిగినప్పుడు ఆ సంగీతాన్ని వెతుక్కుంటాను!! పిలిచినా వెంటనే పుట్టిన రోజు నాజూకుగా రావడం ముదావహం.. వెళ్ళిపో అన్నామని అలిగి మల్లి తిరిగి రాకపోవడం గడిచిన కాలానికున్న అహం!! గడచిన కాలాన్ని నెమరువేసుకుంటూ... రాబోయే కాలమంతా నీవు సుఖ సంతోషాలతో వర్దిల్లాలని ఆశిస్తూ!!

Why is that we always fix a target for everything in life? Why is that we fix a norm for every thing we do? Why is that we always long for things which are not in our hands. When we are young our parents plan for us and fix the terms! And as we grow up we ourselves start fixing the terms!! We fix a target for everything, rather anything we do education , marriage, children, job, friends, relations… And above all, for the life itself….. “I am not going to be happy”…..unless it is going to be like this…. We make happiness conditional …. Thereby life also conditional. We seek happiness in life by achieving something Rather than being ourselves, Living our own life as it comes…accepting it as it is… We forget that life has got both….. Highs and lows…we forget that.. life is a wave! We want to fix the boundaries.. We want to control the flow.. We try to decide when we want to be happy We postpone enjoyment in everything we do…… Till it reaches a particular leve...

Today some one compared my laughing with lightning and thunder Just like lightning is followed by thunder Laugh first reaches the eyes, followed by ears Because, we all know…. that light travels faster than sound. Its true… the other person will be first attracted to… The glow brought in your face by the laugh, Then listens to the melodious sound it carries ... As I have observed many a times A laugh rarely go unnoticed Most of the times it has a reciprocation. It always gives you something Something more than just a laugh.. It gives you warmth! It gets you affection! Takes you high! Makes you sigh…!! What not… Sometimes small things Sometimes big things Sometimes a laugh will give you everything… Everything you want.. But more than all these things It just struck me today that There is something more special about laugh When you laugh… before anyone receives it You yourself will receive…. Receive in plenty…. Plenty of happiness before you make the oth...

Quite often we do that But rarely do we realize… We realize…. that we think a lot about Either past or future and Forget about the PRESENT!! We go on think about things Which we have done Which are closed! Which are sealed! Permanently in the time frame!! Which we can not change by any means.. But still we think Think endlessly…. What would have been… If it would have been Etc etc…etc….. Never we try to realize that…….. That thing… that action… was perfect for that moment That thing and that action had a perfect past…. We keep on try to rebuild the building In which we are already living… And by doing so… we lose the happiness of living Living in the present moment……. Similarly we think about future….. We go on plan for things…. Which we are going to do… Which may or may not take place Which are rather uncertain…… Which we can not decide right now…… But still we plan…… Plan untiringly……… It is going to be like that… I am going to do that… Etc…et...

Why our thoughts are always categorized? Why are they always either negatively or positively skewed? Why we always put an emotional tag attached to them? Love! Sentiment! Anger! Happiness! Distress! Disgust! Frustration! Obligation! It can be anything. But never it comes without any thing… Never it remains just as thought!! We always try to make a simple thing into complicated one Just by adding these tags… We go on try to churn out some meaning from all these meaning less things!! Why can’t we just allow the thought to flow.. Just like wind… just like water… Going in any direction Without any control……. Why we always think that We are either good thinkers or bad thinkers Why can’t we just think…… Think without any limitation… Think without any horizon… Think without any prefix and suffix… Why can’t we allow the thoughts to flow…… Just try it…… The thoughts will take you to heaven…… I promise!!!

Its my mind, but............. The thoughts are always yours! Its my heart, but............. The feelings are always yours! Its my life, but......... The moments are always yours! Wherever I go, whatever I do you are always there Can you tell me dear What right do you have, To decide.... my life Withou my concern....

Just I started thinking ……….. What is memory What it takes to make a thing into memory Whether its good or bad memory……. The place….. The time…… The person or All put together? If these things can make a memory Why not all the things of our life turned into memories? When we look back at things Why only few remain with us? When we meet the same person, for the same amount of time, at the same place Can it give same kind of memory? I am sure certainly not….. Today somehow I got to realize Realize the truth…. The truth behind memory What makes a thing into memory……. It is the INVOLVEMENT Yes involvement…… If we get ourselves involved with that Particular moment Particular place Particular person Then the ordinary thing will turn into memory Otherwise not…. Absolutely not. So. unless you have really involved yourself whole heartedly in a particular thing It can not turn into memory! Start counting your memories………

In our life time, We come across with lots of people at different points of time. Of those people, some remain with us and are in touch.. in one way or the other.. and some just remain in memories! It may not always be logical to think as to why life took the turns it actually took, why we did what we actually did and more importantly why we did not do what we did not do why did not say or what we did not say. It may sound absurd and vicious thinking about all such things in life. Sometimes we say it but the one whom we told would NOT HAVE "HEARD" IT. What it means is...... it would not have been heard in the way it was said and it was intended to be.

So many things to say.. So many feelings to share.. None will come to rescue! When I want to express a few!! Why you come and go.. When you know You can't be With me forever!! No pain no gain people say.. What I get is only pain... As I always see!! Just I am asking....... Are you gaining anything.. From the other end, Which I cant see!!!!!!!

Love is life Love is divine Love is supreme Love is eternal Love is beautiful Love is magical Love is powerful Love is this Love is that Love is what not.......everything Love has always been prefixed with so many superlatives/ adjectives. But today I want to put love into a different bracket Love is conditional..... Off late I have observed…….. In any relationship There is an equation Just like Einstein's theory of relativity..... If you love me this much with this much intensity I will love you that particular period with more or less equal intensity If there is slight shift…….. The equilibrium will shift as the reaction can't take place with the same speed. This applies to Husband-wife Parent-child Boss-subordinate Friend-friend And for that matter any relationship you put into application it will have similar repercussions, Once there is shift in amount of love. So, love here is conditional.......... Yes, unless the other person fulfills all...

I have realized .......... The more you do the things The more you learn about life! The more may be in the form of meeting a new person The more may be in the form of reading a book The more may be in the form of taking one photograph The more may be in any form of an experience. Definitely you are going to learn something.......... Something more about life! Something new about life!! There may be that one particular thing That will change your whole perspective of life Never sit at a place Go around the world Do more! Learn more!! Live more!!!

Off late I have realized one thing I am not a good person I always try to put blame on others For my unhappiness I always think that people have deceived me But in fact more than anybody else I have deceived myself I always use to assume rather erroneously That I have given so much And expect others to give it back When the estimation itself is wrong How can I expect right things from the other person Its not me, the other person should feel that Yes, she has given me so much I never bother to consider others opinion about me What they think of me How much do they care about me Its all my mistake I use to imagine My stature Irrespective of what they think about me Then why should I now bother that They are not giving me enough space They were like that Since the beginning Its me Who started thinking so many things I myself gave so much credibility all relationships And expect them to return What a big fool I am I was wro...

I aways think There is something untold... Something unheard from you.. So I want to talk Talk for my hearts content But that day will be probably the last day in my life When I want to convey exactly what I feel The words won’t come to my rescue They go here and there They just can’t catch up with My thoughts My feelings My emotions So there will be always a part of me Which is not able to connect with you That makes me more frustrated That’s what keeps me trying my best By all possible ways of me to say... Keep talking... One-day you may succeed Many a times I thought beyond the boundaries and limitations Certainly it gives me pleasure But more than that it also gives me tears I never understand this phenomena I keep questioning my self My god But never I got any answer........... Earlier.... I always use to think what all these people write in novels and show in movies is somewhat unrealistic and more of imaginative but once i experienced I starte...

I just happened to meet one good old friend of mine yesterday Its not that we completely lost touch with each other We are very much in contact by phone/ e-mail / greetings etc etc But some how .........personally we could not meet each other since so many years So yesterday when I met the person suddenly I realized how valuable the presence of a person is To get connected, feel connected and just really be connected............ Its totally a new feeling...... its totally a new me I started recollecting all that we have passed through All the so journey we have made in past years How precious is that time and this person in my life Once upon a time..........really........ One has to make an effort to meet the friends then only one will realize No e-mail, no phone call can give you the feeling of belonging The feeling one gets when you really Meet the person ....see the person ........... Touch the person........ A pat on the back......... A han...

A good gesture always gives you more pleasure Whether you are at receiving end or giving end The process is always filled with joy and happyness Ask yourself one question everyday before going to bed "Have I done anything small/ big for anybody today? without expecting any returns?" If the answer is yes..... that means you are going to have a good night Otherwise a sleepless night So prctice doing good deeds for a goodnight's sleep I swear it really works..............

I exactly don’t know what title to give and how to begin But that should not stop me from writing For that mater anything we do at the first instance it looks indescribable in totality It gradually builds up .........step by step, then it will attain a shape Maybe a very irregular shape, as in present case But the effort is more important here than the result........ So here I am, writing some nonsense without thinking much into it I am neither qualifying it into any category nor quantifying it by any figures It’s absolutely absurd How does u like it??????

Some times the urge to write is more More than what actually is........to write. Its not that something important is happening Something more important is missing But........ just like that Once I start writing I feel much releived ........ As if some big problem has been solved Its not that some one will go through what all I write I am writing for my sake Its an uncontrollable act It happens.........just like that No regrets, no complaints No problems, no solutions I am writing for me Not to please anybody.........

I always have a doubt........ Whether we live our life for our sake or its just to make others happy? I think from the day one of our life We try to please, Rather we have been trained to please others. I do remember myself training my daughter to utter The first words like amma, atta etc., So, people use force you to tell The words they want to hear, Rather than allowing you to speak What you want to speak. So, our life has been planned To live according to others choice. Its not a new thing Only thing is we recognise it a little later in life That we are living for others sake and we make a big howl and cry Why??????? No need. Go with the flow People will be happy Who bothers whether you are happy or not Living their lives..............

Quite often I think How this happened? Without my knowledge Nobody took my concern Nobody bother to ask either “would you like to” And one fine morning I am here on planet Earth Seldom do I realize that Moments pass into days And days into years All the time passes by Life changes in such a fast pace Quite often I think Everything I can control After all, this is my life……….. Seldom do I realize that The first step was without my concern I cannot hold back the last one too When I cant fix up these two ends How can I claim that this is my life? Quite often I think That everything I can hold back After all, these things belong to me……. Seldom do I realize that Nothing is permanent Time, matter or Person Everything has to pass by Life at any moment is so fragile

Sometimes we think that we are thinking...... Is it really true?or its just that, Whatever is going on in our surroundings is Just making a digital imprint in our brain?? And we think that we are thinking Do we really think????or is it just a process Like any other things like breathing/heart beat etc etc Which goes on without any control of us I think its just another natural happening We name it .....thinking To proclaim that we are intellectuals What do you think??????

HAPPY   HOLI......................

Sometimes suddenly the mind becomes restless The more you try to keep it at a place, The more it wonders Why its so? certainly I dont know. I dont know many a things Is it just because I dont know or Is it just because I dont want to know. The later may be the correct reason Because it involves a lot of thought process I dont want to do it now Thats all.......................

Just I was wondering What makes us move You, me and and this whole world.. What is that which keeps us to go ahead or Doing anything big and small. I know everybody says its hope But I dont agree I think rather than hope Its faith......... That keeps us moving If I dont have faith in anything I do I am just going to lose myself To this world What do you say??????

Yesterday I was thinking Why? Why we talk Why we write Why we think Why we do a thing or anything Its because......... we feel When you dont feel about anything You wont be doing anything You will be at peace So feel is the culprit People without feel live more happily Than people with feel What do you say??????

Hi Its me Atlast I have started I have started writing Its  a great feeling Really..................